I really don’t like asking for help. I’m comfortable with doing things on my own.
I know that’s not healthy nor is it possible to do everything on my own; however, I always feel like when people ask if you need help, they’re not really asking.
In reality, they’re actually praying you say no.
I started to realize that people only ask if you need help to make it seem as if they care or to hype up their egos.
You know, like they’re a good citizen and what not.
Not everyone acts like this, but everytime I’ve asked for help, people act EXACTLY LIKE THAT.
I analyze a lot of things… I pay attention when people are talking to me. I notice gestures… I pay attention to your body language… the tone of your words etc..
I know, some of you might be thinking…
You’re doing too much.
Well, I’m a true over thinker. I don’t just say that because it’s a “trend” or “popular”.
I really over think… A LOT.
And I wish I didn’t.
But, in the words of Lady GaGa…
I was born this way.
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