You have to ignore people’s attempt to get you out of character.
It’s insane how someone will go out of their way to make you lash out.
There’s people in this world who will do anything in their power to get you mad or to stoop to their level.
They’ll, for instance, throw subliminal “shots”, your way to get you to say something to them.
Ignore whoever doesn’t bring you happiness.
Ignore whatever doesn’t contribute to your success and positive vibes.
These type of people have nothing to lose.
So they don’t mind trying to bring other people down.
These type of people love to post about how nothing is going their way. Just so they can gain sympathy.
Stay away from these type of people.
Be a better person.
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There are some really messed up people put there and the best thing to do when it comes to people like that is to cut them out of your life.
You’re absolutely right. It sucks when you have to do that to people you’ve known for years but you have to protect your energy.
Yeah of course you need to put yourself first.
When I was in my early twenties I used to react to these people and end up with a load of negative energy. But a few years later and I’m wiser – I stay away from such people. Whenever someone gets toxic in my life, I waste no time in blocking them out of my life.
These type of people love to play the victim role when you call them out, so I’m learning to block them. You’re right, there’s so much negativity when you fall into their trap. Thank you for commenting!
I myself have been looking at ways to control the only thing I can, my mind and my reaction. Everything else really is beyond my control, and that includes bumping into a couple of assholes once in a while. Love the message of this post. Thanks for sharing!
Thank you so much for commenting! Sometimes I forget that I can’t control what others do and I often blame myself for their behavior. I’m currently still learning not to do that. I’m so happy you liked the post.