Sometimes I get frustrated when people I know don’t support me. It’s like they can see how hard I’m working and still choose to support a perfect stranger instead.

By support, I don’t mean give me money.

I mean, reposting one of my blog posts or articles.

A simple like on one of my photography posts.

A subscribe to my YouTube channel.

You know, the little things.

I don’t know why it’s hard for people to do that.

Maybe I’m thinking too much into it?

I know I shouldn’t care because it’s futile, but I’m human and my feelings get hurt sometimes.

I have a handful of people who do support me and that should be enough… and it is!

Yet sometimes, I can’t help but wonder why they aren’t.

I’m an overthinker..

Not by choice (obviously)…

I didn’t choose the “over thinker” life, it chose me.

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3 thoughts on ““Overthinking..”

  1. I always hated that too, especially on facebook. I had friends that would never comment on my status updates or like them etc. and yet they were always active on Facebook. By friends I mean people I actually hung out with in person. It drove me crazy.

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    1. You took the words right out of my head! There are people I’ve known for years, hung out with almost everyday, yet on social media acted as if I wasn’t important. These are the type of people who don’t deserve our positive energy. Thank you for commenting!

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      1. I left Facebook a couple years ago and people didn’t seem to notice or care. Some of them assume I’m still on FB even though I’ve been inactive for 2+ years. I gave some Facebook “friends” my number but never heard from them after that. Social media gives us this false security that our online friendships are stronger than they actually are 🙇‍♀️

        Agreed, much of what I see on social media is either negative or some highlight reel of someone’s perfectly hyped-up life. Tbh we’re better off without em.’ Keep doing your thing and you will find your tribe of like-minded people! Sending you some #positive-vibes 🙌


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