Let me tell y’all why situationships make no sense to me. First, let me share the definition for those who have no idea what it is.

A relationship that has no label on it.. like a friendship but more than a friendship but not quite a relationship.


tenor (1) So basically, you’re getting the benefits of being in a relationship without actually being in one? Make it make sense.

I know for some people this sounds perfect because you can say you’re single while being involved with a person because technically you are, right? 

Situationships sound more difficult than being single or in a relationship, in my opinion. You don’t know where you stand with that person because there’s no title. Y’all are more than friends but not a couple; however, you do things couples do but you’re single.

It’s very confusing and I think it can cause problems.

Situationships are supposed to be free and fun but mixed feelings don’t sound like fun. What if one person wants to take the situationship to another level and you don’t? What happens then?

Would the situationship be over?

I know there has to be some sort of agreement on both ends for a situationship to start, but it sounds messy. There could be many people involved on both ends and that just sounds like drama to me.

What do you think? Would you be in a situationship?


3 thoughts on “Situationships

  1. I agree with everything you said. Situationship is like the easy way out and I will break it down
    Most of the people that are in situationships are in them because they don’t want to be honest with their true intentions so situationship is an excuse so you can keep getting sex out of a person.
    Relationships is not only about dates sex and romance, its also about scarfice, constant communication, and accepting your partner flaws, meeting your partner’s parents so another word a relationship is a much bigger responsibility and at the same time people won’t place you in the friendzone because that if your label as a friend more than likely sex won’t being an option.
    Situationships is a half ass relationship.
    Alot of times situationships occur when one person is rejected from the other person as afar as taking things on a relationship level. So the person rejected will try to walk away but yet don’t know how to let go and believe that they will not find nobody else better so they just give in and allow themselves to be in a situionships because in their minds a situionship is better than moving on.

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